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Are you hiring the service of a gay male escort or rentboy for the first time?

If yes, then this blog post is a must-read. It will give you helpful hints and tips required to get the best men for a professional male escorts service.

We appreciate our clients so much!! Over the years they have shared a lot with us about their experiences with the sex industry.

One thing we’ve heard over and over is how anxious they were when they decided to see a male escort, especially a male to male gay escort for the first time.

They feel nervous about how to present themselves, and unsure of what to do. Being shy guys ourselves, Its not hard imagine how nervous they might feel…

Then there are the health safety and physical safety concerns; it makes me wonder how many guys want to see a rentboy or male escort but are too nervous to take the first steps.

This article will help you out if you’re not sure what to expect in your first booking with an escort:

An important note before we begin: remember that every escort does things in their own way. We can give you the guidelines of what goes on at the Justin & Jody Wilde house– just remember that all male escorts, rentmen or rentboys especially in the Johannesburg, Pretoria and Cape Town areas will not offer you the same level of service or safety guarantees.

If you would like to know more about us visit our Gallery and read more about us here on our blog. See what others had to say in our reviews

Let’s assume you’ve decided that Justin & Jody are the escorts that seem right for you, and you’ve made a booking; your appointment could take place at a hotel, your home or at our luxury venue depending on your preferences.

When we travel to you:

So, we are expected and you are waiting nervously, trying to decide whether to have a second scotch. (Don’t). Think of it as a date – a very short date, with the added benefit of knowing that you’re going to get lucky!

BEFORE WE ARRIVE

Whether you’re at home or in a hotel room, make sure your space is tidy – especially the bathroom, since we’ll probably need to spend some time there before and after our liason. Make sure you have a few clean towels ready. {If you are in a hotel you might want to request an extra towel as we will also need this for the four hand massage}

Just like a date, you’ll make the best impression if you are clean. A bit of mouthwash is always appreciated too! (or just brush your teeth again to be sure, especially if you are a smoker. If you are a smoker don’t try not to smoke but perhaps have a breath mint at hand and make sure the room is well ventilated.)

Drinks are welcome. Do not open wine, cooldrinks or any other drinks before hand as we would prefer to be present when this is prepared. The same courteousy will be awarded when you come to visit us.

WHEN WE ARRIVE

When your escorts arrive, be friendly but restrained, as though it were a regular guest in your home and especially when we meet you in your hotel lobby at hotels where access control is required to go up to the rooms. Discretion is key and to be calm and act natural and relaxed is key to being discreet and not drawing attention.

Give us some time to relax to the surroundings, including the offer of a drink or perhaps a tour of your house (this could be particularly appreciated if we visit you at home, so we don’t have to worry that you have ten drunk thugs hiding in one of your spare rooms)

Make sure you give the fee as soon as possible. Preferably an envelope of cash to a messy wad of notes. The sooner you do this, the sooner we can all put it out of your minds and concentrate on the fun stuff!

Like in any service industry a tip is greatly appreciated. You can ad this to the envelope or do it afterwards in a sneaky, cheeky or playful way as we should all be a lot closer by then.

HYGIENE AND HEALTH CHECK

Once things are comfortable, your escort might perform a health check on you, which is when he takes a look at your ‘bits’ to make sure you don’t have anything scary going on down there. This sounds awkward but a good escort will make it fun. Not everyone does this – It should be noted that many guys won’t check you straight away… but they will be having a discreet look while you’re together, so if you have anything down there that needs to be checked out by a GP it’s best to get it all fixed up well before your booking.

Also visit our Health Info Page for more need to know health information.

Your escort may also ask you to shower, even if you did so before he arrived. Like the safety call, this is nothing personal and doesn’t reflect on you at all. It’s just a standard procedure to make sure you’re both as fresh as possible.

GETTING THINGS STARTED

This is the hardest thing to explain, because everyone is different in their approach. It’s quite an interesting experience getting intimate with someone you have only just met! Personally, we like to start off with a glass of wine and some chatting on the couch or bed, then perhaps some cuddling or kissing; our four hand nude massage to lead into more heavy foreplay.

If you’re not sure what feels right, let us set the pace. Don’t be afraid to admit you are nervous or unsure. If you are a couple be sure to discuss your expectations with us and also your boundaries as a couple. (also see our Couples Page)

If there is something you want but you’re not sure if it’s moving too fast, feel free to ask- “may I kiss you?” or “is it ok if we go to the bedroom?” Asking is sexy and we do appreciate it. On the whole, your escort should be setting the pace for you with a view to having as much fun as possible in the time you have.

THE SEXY STUFF

Please visit the continuation of this post by clicking HERE or go to the menu section at the top of your screen or in the top left corner (four horizontal stripes) for mobile users and select That First Time

Pricing depends on the day, time of day you would like to book as well as which options you would like to make use of. Please call on 071 550 1207 for a detailed quote and to confirm a booking.

We also offer special edging, discovering your fantasies and couples sessions.

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